What you really want, what you really, really want?!

Ah the Spice Girls!  The lasses who were able to bundle up all the meaningful questions of philosophy into one line of a song.

On my last night shift I was reading Carmel McConnells’ book,’ The Happiness Plan – Simple Steps to a Happier Life ‘, it’s a good read, and I highly recommend it.  Anyway I got to the section where she asked the question:  When are you happiest in your job?  The consensus amongst my workmates was – ‘When we finish our last nightshift on Monday morning and are walking out the factory past all the unhappy day workers.’   

We spent the rest of the shift laughing about it… unfortunately, it’s true.  That really is the best part of our jobs.  I’m not going to go into great detail here about what I don’t like about my job (WordPress has a limit on how much you can enter into one blog), except to say, I’ve been looking for ‘something else’ now for some time.

The big trap is to just say, “Stuff It” and quit.  Sometimes this works, mostly it doesn’t.  Many of us are trapped in jobs we hate because of debt.  This is a sure way of retaining good workers, and bad companies make the most of it by abusing their employees.  Other options include, winning Lotto (don’t hold your breath), marrying or inheriting wealth (see Lotto), finding a better employer (call me if you do… anytime), buying or starting your own business, or dropping out and living on home grown vegies in a commune.

Some leave to follow their dreams, and find themselves in a situation where they are forced to leave their dream career and return to their miserable jobs because the pay is crap (eg: The Simpsons episode where Homer gets his dream job as a Pin Monkey at the Ten Pin Bowling Centre, but has to return to the Nuclear Power Plant when Marge falls pregnant with Maggie… that episode still makes me cry 😦 ). 

I also am a big fan of the following post by the very funny, and wise, Tim Brownson: http://www.adaringadventure.com/life-coaching/dont-just-follow-your-passion/

So, at the end of the day, What Should I/We do? 

Continue to buy books like ‘The 4 Hour Work Week’ which I bought, read and have grave misgivings about… and hope that one of them contains “THE ANSWER“? 


Give up, and join the ranks of the Working Retired (people with jobs who do the bare minimum to avoid trouble), and find, then enjoy, what Happiness you can in the world about you?

I’m starting to lean towards the latter, maybe it’s time to stop assessing my options and just accept that while things could be better, they could also in fact, be much worse.  Much, much worse. 

So, everyday for the next week, I’m going to start each day by mentally listing all the things that bring joy into my life, starting with Good Health, a Loving Family, and a Safe and relatively Secure Lifestyle.  Everything else is a bonus. 

I’ll keep you posted.


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3 responses to “What you really want, what you really, really want?!

  1. I had strange thoughts and felt a bit weird when I read your post because of the date it was posted. The date, however, is the date when we, latvians, celebrate our Independence day. The text you wrote, could be closely related also for each of us here, in Latvia and, it seems, there, in Australia too. Anyhow, i usually dont post comments in blogs, especially in foreign ones (i hate to use this word for the Internet 🙂 ), but this one got me.

    P.S. I also foud the post you wrote about the ride with your KLE. I owe one and i’m pretty keen on hitting Germany and France close to the Summer 11 on it. It’s one hell of a bike, made to tour.

    As they say in Australia (if i’m not mistaken) – cheers mate! 😉

  2. gladbloke

    Hiya Aramands, ta for the nice comments, I’ll have to Google Latvia and learn a bit more about it. Your English is excellent… much better than my Latvian 🙂

    You should have a blast touring through Germany/Austria on the KLE… I’m actually envious! Mind you we have some good rides ‘down under’, just long distances to cover.

    And you’re right, it is,

    Cheers Mate,


  3. Thanks 😉
    I’m sure google has lots to tell – as much about language as for country 🙂

    As we expect winter to come in any moment, my bike’s now in garage waiting for spare parts to be replaced and prepared for the next season (brake pads, fluids, filters, chain etc). And that’s all because we sometimes have winters up to -27 degrees per Celsium! 😀

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